The excitement that comes from a new relationship can make you feel on top of the world. Gradually, the newness of the relationship is no more felt and it’s feels like the relationship is getting stale. You are not unlucky to remain in a boring and dull relationship. On the contrary, there are some steps you can take to keep your relationship more exciting and fresh.
Keep the elements of surprise alive.
Keep surprising your partner from time to time and in different ways. Cook your partner’s favorite meal, book a surprise or weekend get away, arrive home with a small gift. These type of surprises will help keep the relationship alive and interesting and preventing you from staying in a boring and dull relationship.
Verbalize your love feelings.
Don’t forget to use words to express how you feel towards your partner. Often times, people forget all the loving and sweet things they used to say to their partners when the relationship matures. Don’t be shy to use words that expresses how you feel towards your partner.
Try something new together.
You should try a new activity with your partner. Take golf, basketball or football lessons together, take an African cooking class or volunteer at a soup kitchen. Willingness to learn something new can help you grow nicely together as a couple.
Spend time with other couples.
Spending time with other couples who have good and healthy relationships may be good for you and help you. It can help you to be more committed and help remind you to keep your relationship more exciting.
Establish goals together.
Establish what is usually known as ‘couple goals’. Such goals may include a financial goal, like saving some amount of money and going on a trip or vacation. It could also be a fitness goal where you plan to go to the gym with your partner. Working towards your goal may help you feel like it’s a team work activity as well as gives you more issues to tackle and talk about since you are exploring.
Discuss your hopes and dreams.
Discussion of hopes and dreams usually takes place when the relationship is new. However, such discussions may begin to fade out when the relationship feels stale. Set time aside to discuss about your dreams and aspirations and support each other to make it a reality.
Greet each other with excitement.
Greet your partner with excitement . By achieving this, you can meet your partner at the door and give them a hug and a kiss when they get back from work. This can help intensify the bond between you and your partner making your relationship more exciting and fresh.