The Artistic Director and Lead Writer at Roverman Productions, James Ebo Whyte, says the notion by some men that their wives do not like sex is wrong.
He believes failure on the part of men to bring their wives to orgasm is the actual problem.
“Any time I hear a man say, my wife is not interested in sex, I laugh and say no, there’s no woman I know who is not interested in sex. What you should say is that my wife is not enjoying having sex with me, not that she’s not interested in sex,” he said.
The playwright, popularly known as Uncle Ebo Whyte, who was sharing insight on his new book ‘Let’s Talk About Sex’ on JoyNews’ AM Show on Friday said men share the blame.
He said every woman loves sex, “but if you are not bringing her to orgasm, you are not letting it be in the total context of the relationship, then women begin to feel used.”
Mr Whyte added that it even gets worse if she feels that this thing the man is doing does not mean anything to him, “because he’s doing the same thing with Adwoa, he’s doing the same thing in town with Ama.”
He is, therefore, of the view that “if children were born out of good sex, a lot of marriages will be childless because sex in a lot of marriages are porous and quite often it is the man having released, having discharge, having ejaculation, and the woman being left at high and dry.”
Uncle Ebo Whyte also noted that, when it comes to sex, the thinking of women differs from that of men, and “I think that what men do not understand is that for women, sex is connected to everything else.
“It’s connected to the way I feel about you, It’s connected to the way I feel about myself, It’s connected to the way I feel about everything about this relationship, It’s connected to the way I feel about this environment, and all of that,” he observed.
However, he noted that men hardly consider their environment when they have an erection, but “she is thinking about the whole environment, if somebody going to stumble upon us, are the children asleep, [whereas] for you, you don’t care because the children can be in their room.”
“We, our life is very simple when it comes to this, we must understand that and we must understand that for the woman, it is not that simple.”
The playwright further noted that men sometimes also fail to realise that “a man is off-hand and shabby with his woman and still expects the woman to be nice.
“You snap at a woman and then you want sexual attention, of course, she’s not going to give it, not that she is punishing you, not that she’s been difficult. Her mechanism is such that everything is linked to that,” he said.
“And so the cue that men need to know when you get the woman in life is, be nice to the girl, be nice to the woman because everything is borne out of that, your gestures, the way you speak to her,” he advised.
Uncle Ebo Whyte also advised that “if you want sex in the evening, it should start in the day before so that her mind begins to get ready.”
According to him, being thoughtful and sensitive to your women “is the whole thing” but cautioned it must not be only when a man wants to have sex because it may be rejected, “so let it be in your relation.”
Being nice to the woman, the Artistic Director, explained should not necessarily be an all-day package.
“The point is that we must understand that for the woman, it is not just that my husband wants sex so give, [rather], my husband wants sex but he spoke to me badly this morning, how can he have sex? And it’s a genuine question for them, they get confused about that,” he further noted.
Again, he cited, the woman thinks about why “we’ve just had sex, and then he gets up and goes to sleep in the hall, why, why won’t he cuddle me, why won’t he hold me after it?”
Pregnancy is the most beautiful journey most women want to take but they tend to hit a crossroad when they get into labour.
Most women forget all the mental and physical preparations they’ve worked on for 9 months prior to being in labour. It’s true that they go through the most excruciating pain ever which can go for hours before the baby finally comes out.
Here are a few tips to remind on you on what to do during your labour period;
You can call your midwife or hospital straight away if you think you’re in labour. You will usually be assessed over the phone.
The first thing to do is try to stay calm. The stories you hear about babies arriving on the way to hospital or in the bathroom are the exception, not the rule. You probably have plenty of time.
Write down how much time there is between your contractions and how long each one lasts. If you have a smartphone you can use the timer function.
If you’re having a home birth, let your midwife know you think labour has started.
If you have other children and have arranged a babysitter, let your babysitter know.
Check you have everything you need. If you’re going to hospital make sure you have your bag, car keys or taxi number and money to pay for the parking meter or taxi.
give advice and support to your birth partner (if you have one).
Your midwife may believe you’re in the latent phase of labour. If this is the case, you’ll probably be recommended to stay at home where you can stay as comfortable as possible. You’re more likely to have a smoother labour and fewer interventions if you stay at home until labour is stronger and your contractions are regular.
Established labour is when your cervix has dilated to more than 4cm. At this point, you’ll start having stronger, longer and regular contractions. Contact your midwife, maternity unit or labour ward again when:
your contractions are regular and coming about 3 in every 10 minutes – you could use your phone to time them and there are lots of apps available that may help you keep track
your contractions are very strong, and you feel you need pain relief – if you are in severe pain during the latent stage you can ask for an epidural
you’re worried about anything.
Your midwife, maternity unit or labour ward will advise you when to come into hospital.
Who will be with me during labour?
If you’re having your baby at home, your midwife will be with you all the time unless you ask to be left alone with your birth partner for a while.
Once you’re in established labour, you should have one-to-one care from your midwife. There may be a student midwife working with your midwife. Your birth partner can be with you all the time.
If you have decided who you would like to have with you, you can put it in your birth plan.
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Domestic flight is one that take place within a country’s borders or within the same country.
In this article, we’re going to discuss the full list of Domestic Airlines, their Flight Fees and frequently asked questions about domestic flights in Ghana 2022/2023.
Domestic Airlines In Ghana 2022/2023
Africa World Airlines in Ghana
Passion Air
Aerogem Aviation Ghana Airlines
Air Ghana local flights in Ghana.
Antrak Airlines in Ghana.
Gianair Airline companies in Ghana.
Royal Fly –GH Airline.
Starbow Airlines.
Gian Air
How many domestic airlines are functional in Ghana?
Ghana currently has two functional domestic airlines that fly in Ghana.
The domestic airlines currently flying in Ghana are;
Domestic flight fees for airlines is not quite straightforward as a lot of factors come into play to determine the pricing.
Factors that determine the amount of flight fees;
Airline you choose
Season of booking
Class you want to fly in (Economy, Business, First Class, etc.)
Domestic Flight Fees in Ghana
We have compiled the average cost of each amount airlines charge to major cities from Accra.
Departure
Destination
Average Price (GHS)
Accra
Kumasi
320
Accra
Sekondi-Takoradi
432
Accra
Tamale
405
Do you need a passport for domestic flights in Ghana?
The answer is No, you do not need a passport for domestic flights in Ghana. However, you will need a valid Identification Card or documentation to be able to fly domestically.
You can use your Passport as well but it needs to be valid one.
What documentation do I need to fly domestically in Ghana?
Any of the following could be used to fly domestically in Ghana.
Many people choose to be virgins until marriage or until some goal is achieved but little do they know there may be some side effects to this decision.
So here are some reasons why celibacy should be revisited, as the consequences are not very pleasant.
You become slower
According to a study by the University of Maryland, when you have less sex or no sex at all, you become slower with your thoughts. Your neuron functioning is affected. Your ideas are not so bright.
Pent up frustration
Very rarely do we have cases of someone being A-sexual, as everyone has urged. You may control yourself but your lower abdomen will definitely hurt. When people have an orgasm, they let go of a lot of frustration and sex releases that.
Confidence
When you have sex, the right way, your confidence increases but when you do not, you also lose the ability to do it ever again as your organ basically loses its mojo. You will never experience the liberation, the confidence people feel after a good session of sex.
Bladder weakening
Sex is supposed to be good for your muscles which help in holding your pee. If you do not do it, your pelvic floor muscles have a huge possibility of weakening and you may even face untimely dripping.
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